Blow jobs? Check Always. Hand jobs? Always Check. Butt play? It’s complicated.

Blow jobs? Check Always. Hand jobs? Always Check. Butt play? It’s complicated.

I’m nibbling for a grocery-store cheese dish in a roomy house in East L.A. with a number of homosexual guys who’ve sworn off anal intercourse once and for all. They call themselves “ sides ,” a term created in 2013 by Joe Kort , a detroit-based therapist that is clinical been counseling such guys for pretty much three decades. In a HuffPo article , Kort offered a substitute for the binary category used by many homosexual guys to see their chosen sexual place — i.e., “ top ,” the penetrat or perhaps in sleep, or “ base ,” the penetrat ee — by launching the term “sides” to indicate one’s affinity for neither — and possibly more to the point, disdain for both. […]